Foundations - 2004
IMPORTANT: This Checklist should be used with the Guidelines and Reporting Form. Order information for resources mentioned here will be found in the Resources list.
A. EDUCATING THE CONGREGATION ABOUT THE NEEDS OF CHILDREN AND THE POOR
GOAL: To sensitize United Methodist Congregations to circumstances faced by children and by poor families in order that churches might respond with acts of compassion and justice. In this section complete #1 and at least two others.
1. Assess the needs of children in your community by:
3. Hold a study series on the needs of children and the poor, attended by at least 10% of the adults in the congregation, using a book such as Welcome the Child, It Takes a Village, or Amazing Grace. Consider beginning the series by showing the video, "Listen to the Children."
4. Have a sermon series, three to four weeks in length, on the needs of children, with an emphasis on children in widely differing circumstances and communities.
5. Hold a series (at least two sessions) of seminars on the needs of children in your community, to include one "hearing" with a panel of various community leaders and one "open mike" session to hear from children themselves.
6. Hold a series of educational sessions (at least two) on recent research on brain development of children from birth to age three. Use this information to evaluate your church's support for young parents and its care for the very young. (See resources listed under "Brain Research.")
7. Using resource from Children's Defense Fund, offer a "Child Watch" program to sensitize adults in the congregation to the needs of children in the community.
8. Keep the congregation posted on issues of children and poverty through:
9. Make it possible for the pastor and other church staff to attend a continuing education event on the needs of children.
10. Other _______________________________________________
B. MAKING CHURCH FACILITIES SAFE AND WELCOMING FOR CHILDREN AND FAMILIES
GOAL: To evaluate and modify church buildings, equipment, and furnishings so that they are safe, appropriate, and hospitable. In this section, complete #1 and at least one other.
1. Give a special task force responsibility for evaluating and ensuring the safety of the facilities, such as:
2. Give a task force (same as in #1, or a special one) responsibility for making the church hospitable for children, with measures such as:
3. Assign the church school committee or children's ministries work area the responsibility for reviewing and implementing the following:
4. Other _______________________________________________
C. REDUCING THE RISK OF CHILD ABUSE
GOAL: To implement programs, policies, and procedures that reduce the risk of children being abused in the church and the community. In this section, complete #1 and at least one other.
1. Create a special task force to develop policies and procedures for prevention of child abuse (using Safe Sanctuaries: Reducing the Risk of Child Abuse in the Church or Reducing the Risk of Child Sexual Abuse in Your Church) and present them to the Church Council for adoption. They could include the following
2. Present an adult education seminar series on identifying and responding to child abuse using videos "Hear Their Cries" and "Bless Our Children" and hearing from child abuse experts in the community. Keep informational brochures about child abuse in the church vestibule such as What You Need to Know if a Child is Being Abused or Neglected.
3. Obtain age-appropriate curriculum for children on prevention, abuse awareness, and self-protecting skills, and use them in church school, vacation church school, weekday activities, and/or other settings. Excellent curriculum is available from the Center for the Prevention of Sexual and Domestic Violence. (See Resource List)
4. Offer parent support groups and parenting classes on a regular basis to church families and to community families.
5. Organize church and community volunteers to provide "safe corridors" for children walking to and from school.
6. Sponsor a before-and/or after-school ministry that provides a safe haven for children.
7. Other _______________________________________________
D. HELPING CHILDREN GROW AS FAITHFUL DISCIPLES
GOAL: To acknowledge the spiritual growth needs of children and to engage them in activities that encourage their faith development. In this section, complete at least two.
1. Recruit a task force or committee to evaluate how faith formation for children happens within the congregation. Use United Methodist resources such as Planning for Christian Education (Discipleship Resources, Order #DR134, $9.95 1-800-685-4370), Children and Prayer (Upper Room Books, Order #UR803, $11.95 1-800-972-0433), "Faith Development of Children" (leaflet, available through the Office of Children's Ministry, GBOD, P.O. Box 840, Nashville, TN 37202).
2. Provide one new opportunity each quarter for children to practice being disciples of Jesus Christ, to learn about God, to explore the Bible with relevance to their lives today, or to contribute liturgy for use in congregational worship.
3. Appoint a task force or committee to discover ways to help children understand and participate in the rites of baptism and communion.
4. Establish a "Sprouts" program for children in the church and the community, using the resource Sprouts: Nurturing Children Through Covenant Discipleship.
5. Include children in the financial stewardship campaign.
6. Design a study series for children in grades 4-6 and middle school using the resource Building a New Community: God's Children Overcoming Racism.
7. Provide a learning weekend/series for older children/younger youth and their parents using the human sexuality curriculum resources available from Cokesbury (1-800-251-8591)
8. Provide opportunities for parents (in your congregation and in the community) to learn about raising their children as faithful disciples.
9. Match an adult faith mentor with each child in the congregation (perhaps beginning with infants, kindergartners, third graders or confirmands).
10. Design a 9-week study session for parents on faith development of young children in the home, using Faith Home, a study resource.
11. Sponsor an annual mission study series for children, using the ecumenical study theme and materials from Friendship Press. The study should involve children in mission outreach.
12. Other _______________________________________________
E. INVOLVING CHILDREN IN THE LIFE OF THE CHURCH
GOAL: To re-order congregational life in ways that recognize and involve children and youth as full participants. In this section, complete #1 and at least one other.
1. Regularly involve children in worship by:
2. Order a copy of Children Worship! from Discipleship Resources, and use as a guide in helping children and adults prepare for worship.
3. If "children's time" is a regular part of your worship service, reverse the process once a month, having children provide teaching moments for adults.
4. Include children and/or youth as members of all church committees (recognizing that this will mean scheduling meetings when they can attend and otherwise treating them as full members).
5. Include a regular children's column, written by the children, in the church newsletter, or create a separate newsletter by and for children, mailed directly to all children of the church.
6. Institute meaningful multigenerational activities and programs that bring together children, youth, young adults, middle adults, and older adults, such as multigenerational community service projects, multigenerational Bible study, ongoing multigenerational fellowship groups, etc.
7. Other _______________________________________________
F. REACHING OUT TO CHILDREN IN THE COMMUNITY
GOAL: To engage in programs and activities aimed at improving life for children and for poor people in the neighborhood around the church as well as in nearby communities that may be quite different economically and/or racially. In this section, complete at least any three.
1. Support public schools by:
2. Provide a six-week study of the church's relationship to public schools using Education: The Gift of Hope.
3. Offer ongoing tutoring and mentoring relationships between adults in the congregation and children in the community.
4. Provide supervised before and/or after-school programs that include:
5. Offer weekly "Parents' Day (and/or Evening) Out."
6. Offer a drug prevention program for neighborhood children and youth, utilizing the resources of the United Methodist Special Program on Substance Abuse and Related Violence.
7. Offer a well-publicized Vacation Church School open to community children.
8. Sponsor a Family Health Fair at the church, with health check-ups, immunizations, various screenings such as blood pressure, diabetes, glaucoma, scoliosis, vision, hearing, etc. Consider sponsoring a blood drive at the same time, so that those who receive have the option of also giving.
9. Provide school supply kits to neighborhood children.
10. send community children to church camp along with children of the congregation.
11. Sponsor summer program for church and community children (could be an extension of Vacation Church School or a summer day camp).
12. Develop a community garden on church property, encouraging (and teaching/helping) children and their families to plant, cultivate, weed, water and harvest. Consider including composting and recycling programs.
13. Offer free music and/or art lessons as a ministry of the church
14. Provide a "lending closet" of costly items families need for children, such as child safety seats, cribs, high chairs, strollers, musical instruments, coats, etc.
15. Provide transportation for pregnant women to prenatal classes and clinics (or sponsor prenatal classes at the church) and transportation for mothers and children to clinics.
16. Sponsor and nurture partnership between experienced mothers/grandmothers and new and/or single mothers and between experienced fathers/grandfathers and new young fathers.
17. Other _______________________________________________
G. ADVOCATING FOR LEGISLATION AND PUBLIC POLICIES THAT IMPROVE CHILDREN'S LIVES AND LIVES OF POOR FAMILIES
GOAL: To become active in organizations, coalitions, and other efforts that seek to systemically improve life for children and for poor persons and families. In this section, complete at least any two.
1. Join a child advocacy network such as United Methodist Child Advocacy Network (CAN) or United Methodist Women's Action Network (WACTION) or start your own in your community or state.
2. Publish child advocacy information and legislative action alerts in each issue of your church newsletter.
3. Sponsor a monthly forum on state and federal legislation, and have a monthly "offering of letters" to congresspersons, governors, the president, etc.
4. Set up an advocacy center or bulletin board in the church, posting information about pending bills affecting children, and setting out postcards to legislators.
5. Hold a community-wide voter registration drive.
6. Arrange transportation to voting polls for all local, state, and national elections.
7. Challenge all candidates for public office to "put children and their families first" by asking them to respond to the following questions and holding them accountable for their answers:
(The above taken from 1996 General Conference resolution on "Putting Children and Their Families First")
8. Hold a Candidates' Forum on Children and Families for all candidates for office. Ask them to state their positions on issues affecting children and families and to answer questions like those in the previous item. Have children from church and community present and orient them in advance about the purpose and how to participate.
9. Participate in Child Watch (Children's Defense Fund) or other direct exposure experience to teach church members about the effect of public policies on children in the community.
10. Other _______________________________________________
H. RELATING TO CHILDREN AROUND THE WORLD
GOAL: To raise consciousness among United Methodists about the lives of children in other parts of the world and to engage in activities that improve their lives. In this section, complete at least any two.
1. Join with others to support U.S. ratification of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (only three countries - Somalia, the Cook Islands, and the United States - have not ratified this internationally recognized agreement). Write to UNICEF for information and hold educational events in your community about the Convention on the Rights of the Child. Contact your U.S. Senators and urge them to vote for ratification.
2. Sponsor an educational event, or series of events, on the impact of war on children. Join the International Campaign to Ban Land Mines.
3. Sponsor an educational event on the issue of child labor, in the U.S. and internationally. Contact the Child Labor Coalition for information and resources. Consider joining campaigns like "Rugmark" that encourage people to buy products that are certified not to have been made with child labor.
4. Learn about the international campaign against child prostitution. Contact ECPAT (Ending Child Prostitution, Child Pornography and Trafficking of Children for Sexual Purposes). Sponsor an educational event for your church and community on this issue.
5. Ask a committee or group of volunteers to research United Methodist mission magazines, New World Outlook and Response, for articles in the past several years about children around the world. Distribute the articles among members and have one person report each week (during worship, at weekday fellowship evening, or other regular events) on the situation and needs of children covered in their article. (Link this item with #6 below by making an Advance Special donation to a project for children in the featured country.
6. Study the needs and situations of children around the world Send contributions through Advance Specials to one or more ministries service children, such as:
AND MANY OTHERS - Check Advance Specials Catalog or ABC's: Advance Book of Children's Projects.
7. Begin (or strengthen) an annual focus on mission for the children of your church, culminating in an offering by children for the United Methodist "Children's Fund for Christian Mission." Order the resource packet. In addition, order and use with children copies of Children's Prayer Calendar.
8. Encourage children in Sunday Church School and Vacation Church School to get to know children in other parts of the world through pen pals. An organization for this purpose, related to UNICEF, is the Just Like Me Pen Pal Club. Another is Tapori, the children's branch of the Fourth World Movement.
9. Other _______________________________________________
I. BUILDING ADMINISTRATIVE SUPPORTS FOR MINISTRY WITH CHILDREN AND THE POOR
GOAL: To institute congregational systems and processes that ensure the stability and continuation of efforts on behalf of children and the poor. In this section, complete #1 and at least one other.
1. Establish a Children's Advisory Council, made up of adults, youth, and children, that meets regularly with the Church Council and the pastor and staff to review the status of children's involvement in the life of the church and make suggestions to appropriate church bodies.
2. Have the Children's Advisor Council annually and systematically evaluate the congregation's ministry with children (including ongoing compliance with this checklist), with the goal of implementing three specific changes or additions.
3. Initiate a thorough evaluation of teacher training for workers with children and revamp the church's training in light of learnings; include training on recognizing and responding to child abuse.
4. Assign responsibility to an appropriate committee for ongoing oversight of the church's role as advocate for poor families and for coordination of activities that demonstrate the congregation's intention to be "A Church for All God's Children."
5. Set one meeting of the church council each year at which each committee of the church reports what they have done and are planning to do for children in the church and the community and with the impoverished.